Have you ever made a mistake on something
you have sent home?
How do you handle it?
I work with two very special teachers in my kindergarten team. One of them is Ms. K.
Ms. K is simply amazing. She is efficient, effective, fast, always positive, and thoughtful. She is also a really hard worker and goes above and beyond for her students and activities.Last week, she received a "not so nice" note from a parent.
The parent found a typo on an assignment, specifically an extra “k” on the word “than”. The parent wrote “I find it very difficult to teach my kid when you send stuff like this…”
What was the parent reaction?She said her daughter and her family appreciate everything that she does for her child. She said she was tired when she wrote the note because it was really late and they were doing homework.
When we make mistakes in class, we have to show our kids that we all make them. Let’s not go to the extreme of being careless or extremely anxious for making them, let’s learn from our mistakes and turn them into a teachable moment. Let's all learn that it is okay! Maybe that way, when our students become parents, they will approach the same situation differently.
Great advice. My teacher always says that when a hurtful note is written to the teacher, it rarely has anything to do with the teacher and everything to with something going on at home. She encourages us to not react negatively but to reach out instead. It almost always works and they usually apologize. I love how your friend handled this with such grace.
ReplyDeleteGreat advice! These nasty notes usually mean the parents had a long day as well. Sometimes when you are tired and fed up you can get quite nasty. Still not fun to get as a teacher. I will never forget the first nasty note I got.
ReplyDeleteTara
The Math Maniac